Good Sex: From Unseasoned to Fully Flavored

Learning to cook in the bedroom... and anywhere else!

Good sex isn’t just about physical pleasure—it’s about creating a space where everyone involved feels valued, respected, and truly seen. But how do we define "good sex," and how do we create the conditions necessary for it to thrive?

In a world where intersecting oppressions impose impossible standards on our sexual lives, many of us struggle to access the ingredients that lead to true erotic satisfaction. Instead of experiencing intimate justice, we often encounter barriers—be they emotional, physical, or cultural—that prevent us from embracing the full spectrum of pleasure.

This episode introduces Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons debut book Good Sex. This book shares how we can redefine intimacies ways that works for us individually and collectively. Using a flavorful receipe approach, her research outlines how to build a sex life that’s authentic, pleasurable, and deeply connected. From intimacy and fun to kink and connection, Dr Hargons's shows us how to season our sexual menus with the ingredients that bring true joy and satisfaction.

Dr. Hargons is an award-winning associate professor at Emory University’s Rollins School of Public Health, where she studies sexual wellness and liberation. With over 70 published articles, Dr. Hargons has made substantial contributions to the field, positioning herself as a leading authority in her discipline. Her innovative work has been widely recognized and featured in major podcasts and publications such as the Huffington Post, Essence, Wall Street Journal, Women's Health, Blavity, Cosmopolitan, and the New York Times. Good Sex, was published by Row House February 2025.

To learn more about Dr. Hargons, click here.

More Works by Dr. Hargons:

• Studying sex: A content analysis of sexuality research in counseling psychology

• Balancing the sexology scales: A content analysis of Black women’s sexuality research

• “It feels so good”: Pleasure in last sexual encounter narratives of black university students

• “White people stress me out all the time”: Black students define racial trauma

Season 2 Episode 11

Running Time:  24